As I sat there, staring at what felt like an overwhelming array of shapes and colours, I couldn’t help but see the parallel to what so many women leaders face daily. Just like my scattered puzzle pieces, they’re confronted with countless demands, decisions, and distractions – all calling for immediate attention. Each piece seems important, yet making sense of how they fit together can feel impossibly daunting.
The challenge of the puzzle – finding order in chaos – mirrors the very real struggles I see in my clients’ lives. They’re brilliant professionals managing complex projects, leading teams through change, and driving innovation, all while juggling personal commitments. Like my puzzle pieces spread across the table, their days are filled with seemingly disconnected tasks, urgent requests, and competing priorities.
What I’m learning from this puzzle (which, I confess, is still far from complete) is that the key lies not in trying to solve everything at once, but in creating a framework – much like finding the edge pieces first. For women leaders, this means stepping back to identify what truly matters, what gives meaning to their work, and what impact they want to make. Once this frame is in place, the inner pieces – the daily decisions, the strategic choices, the time investments – begin to make more sense.
The process has taught me something else too. In puzzles, as in leadership, there’s a natural temptation to force pieces together when they look like they should fit. But forcing never works. Instead, when you hold space for uncertainty and trust the process, the right connections reveal themselves naturally. This patience – this willingness to sit with complexity – is a crucial leadership skill that many of us need to cultivate.
I’ve also noticed how my approach to the puzzle changes throughout the day. Sometimes I’m methodical, sorting by colour or pattern. Other times, I rely on intuition, letting my eye guide me to connections I hadn’t seen before. This flexibility in approach reminds me that effective leadership isn’t about sticking to one rigid method – it’s about adapting our approach based on the situation at hand.
Just as I’m learning to be patient with my puzzle, taking time to understand patterns and connections, I guide my clients to appreciate that building something meaningful – whether it’s thought leadership, team culture, or lasting impact – requires both vision and patience. Sometimes the most powerful breakthroughs come not from rushing to fit pieces together, but from pausing to see the bigger picture.
The puzzle still sits on my dining room table, a daily reminder that complexity doesn’t need to be overwhelming. With the right framework, patience, and willingness to adapt our approach, we can make sense of even the most challenging situations. And perhaps that’s the greatest leadership lesson of all – embracing the journey of discovery rather than rushing to forced solutions.
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